You hear about it. You read about it. You see it happening to people your Facebook friends know. Then it happens to you or someone you know, and you’re at a loss of words. Whether it was good news or bad, you’re in shock, because you can’t believe what you’ve just been told. There are a lot of things I wish I could go back and change if I re-did college, but more than anything, there are two important things I wish I could go back and tell myself.